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Comment on 8.29.10 – Being Present Before God by Sue Blanton

Sue Blanton — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 01:25:37 +0000

Mark,

Thank you-a timely message and reminder for me.
It is good to still “hear God” from you.

Comment on A Terrible Burden by Karen

Karen — Mon, 23 Aug 2010 23:46:55 +0000

Good thoughts, Mark. We do often think God’s best means that we are behaving well. I taught at a Christian elementary school where I did the Bible Bowl on “Sports Day” one year. I was new and no one wanted to do anything but the outside games and skills with the students and I was thrilled to get to do the Bible Bowl, which involved getting to “quiz” every single student in the school on what they thought it meant to be saved. I was sad to find not ONE who honestly believed that it was ALL done through Christ. Works had sneaked into the message. All the other teachers assured me they talked often with their kids about that topic…but “getting right with god” had taken on all the connotations we communicate to our kids, not just what we SAY. They learn that we think it means “Go to church, don’t cuss, pray every day and read the Bible.” We think it more than we know.

Comment on Lessons from the Bar by Natalie

Natalie — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 19:29:39 +0000

I read that article on Lindsay and have thought that (except that she needs Christ) every time I read about the trouble she gets into. I pray she finds him.

Very true, those who aren’t desperate usually need God more. We mistakenly have a tendency to think that because our life is not in chaos, we are fine. We recognize others’ needs yet ignore our own )

Comment on Lessons from the Bar by Nathaniel

Nathaniel — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 18:08:16 +0000

Man, I need God because I think I’m better than everyone else =\

Comment on Lessons from the Bar by Shawn Cornett

Shawn Cornett — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 13:20:49 +0000

First time reader and commenter. How true is this?!? Could it be that we need God more in our pride than in our weakness? When I am humble and weak, I need God to lift me up. I think that that is easier than when I am puffed up and proud and need to be brought low. I cry out, “Help me!” long before I realize I need to cry out, “Humble me!” I am much more hesitant to do the latter than the former.

Comment on Lessons from the Bar by Sharon Kendrew

Sharon Kendrew — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 23:26:32 +0000

The Devil does come poking around when we least expect it, when our lives our good and when we tend to sit back and take credit for what “we’ve” done instead of giving praise for what He’s done.

Great post and fantastic reminder that we need God every day, all day!

Comment on Lessons from the Bar by Cari Kaufman

Cari Kaufman — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 23:19:33 +0000

“we need God most when we don’t seem to need God at all.”

Wow…I so needed this post today! Thank you!

Comment on Lessons from the Bar by Mike Hooper

Mike Hooper — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 22:38:37 +0000

Great post Mark! What an awesome reminder that we don’t have to wait till we are in the Pig Slop to return to the Father, and while we are with Him, not to grow cold in our love for Him. I love that: “I need God to keep my mind and heart alive with love for the things worth loving… so that I might live with a glad response.”

Comment on Hard to Do by Karen

Karen — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 15:25:27 +0000

This is great, Mark! Thanks for your glimpse into one pastor’s prayer time. So true!!

Comment on Gathering Church Sermon Podcast : 06.13.10 by Brenda and Rob Raabe

Brenda and Rob Raabe — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 12:40:44 +0000

Mark,
Thank you for your powerful and helpful message! You communicate so well to our hearts and struggles as well as to our joys. We thank you that you have cried with Mike. What love to make yourself that vulnerable to our precious son!. We love and appreciate you and Libby so much!!
Brenda and Rob

Comment on This Sunday – June 13 by Bonnie

Bonnie — Sat, 12 Jun 2010 05:34:26 +0000

I work with a really good guy. He is a solid kinda guy, a gentle Man. His wife found out she was pregnant, and he was Thrilled. Then he found out he is called back to Iraq, and will leave in a month. Then his wife has a miscarriage. He told me all this, and then said “It’s okay though. It’ll all be alright.” I could tell he was trying to be ‘hopeful’ and ‘keep the faith’. I said “Ya know, psalms is Full of David being Angry or scared is full honesty, and feeling Helpless. Its alright to be honest with God. He knows our heart anyway.” The idea of this kind of honest in the bible made him smile and laugh and he said “Thats true.” He took a deep sigh, like he had Permission from God to Feel what he was going through.

I Can’t Even Imagine! I know that our feelings don’t overwhelm God. I am still asking the Holy Spirit to help me to be present to people when feeling so raw. Sounds like a Great Word Mark!

Comment on This Sunday – June 13 by Meredith Cochran

Meredith Cochran — Sat, 12 Jun 2010 01:08:59 +0000

I agree. Mark- thanks for your vision, and personal modeling, of a church where people don’t have to pretend to be just fine all the time. It draws out our real character, which is deeper and more complex and more beautiful than being “fine.” I look forward to the real and raw truth you will share!

Comment on This Sunday – June 13 by Curt Lowndes

Curt Lowndes — Sat, 12 Jun 2010 00:56:07 +0000

Mark,
This sounds great. We have definitely lost the language of lament and pain in the church, but our scriptures (particularly the psalms) are full of that language. It’s time for us to be honest with ourselves and everyone else about how difficult this life can be. The church must be a place where we can speak the truth about ourselves, the world in which we live, injustice, etc. People will see through our masks if we pretend everything is great all the time. I’m really looking forward to this Sunday.

Comment on Great Day! by Daryl Riggins

Daryl Riggins — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 17:30:57 +0000

It was a blessing to me not only to participate in the worship service and witness the baptisms, but to welcome my new church family to Chestnut Ridge. It’s been a part of my life for nearly a decade and I really enjoy sharing it with others. I look forward to the next opportunity.

-Daryl

Comment on Gathering Church Sermon Podcast : 05.16.10 by Tim Greene

Tim Greene — Tue, 18 May 2010 14:03:18 +0000

Was I the only one who noticed that while Mark was out of town that Chris strategically placed a “Duke” water bottle on the table in front of the church? Coincidence? I don’t think so…… Look for futher developments.

Comment on Preview & Input: God’s M.O. by Karen

Karen — Thu, 13 May 2010 20:55:49 +0000

Trust. History. Confidence. That’s so interesting.

I look forward to hearing about our relationship with God …and with each other. In that light!

Karen

Comment on Yesterday’s Notes by Bonnie

Bonnie — Mon, 10 May 2010 23:24:17 +0000

‘Knowing God in my greatest challenges.’ Thats Huge. God isn’t waiting on the curb while we are going through something. He is speaking to us and Will teach us and show us Him, in the midst.

A word about Idolatry:
Recently I have had my eyes opened to idolatry. It’s subtle and sneaky. Fear can creep into our daily thoughts and lives so slowly that we don’t see how we are putting together an alter and bowing down and worshiping Fear. We can sometimes slowly allow Fear to become an Idol to us. OR fearing other’s opinions of our lives and seeking to be understood More then Seeking God’s approval and His peace.

It’s all about progress Not perfection, and I thank God’s Holy Spirit for how he reveals strongholds in such a gentle and loving way.

Comment on Yesterday’s Notes by karen

karen — Mon, 10 May 2010 21:09:24 +0000

One could also say, “Growth is a choice based on a passion for LIFE [God]and a LOVE OF {Christ]THE TRUTH.” I’m pretty sure I declared that to the universe from a hill side in Vail, Colorado one summer day when I was 24-25. I confessed my hunger for those two things, life and truth. After that, I began to reach out to people, and questioned and sought.
Will you be bringing any word about idolatry?

Comment on Preview – Becoming by Bonnie

Bonnie — Fri, 07 May 2010 20:14:29 +0000

What has helped me grow? When I have received a Good Word. Could be a sermon, a verse, words from a friend, or a stranger, or even a Good Word from a tv show I was watching… yeah, that usually starts things up in my Spirit, Big Time~

Comment on Preview – Becoming by Karen

Karen — Thu, 06 May 2010 20:21:00 +0000

Passion killer? I think FEAR is the number one “passion killer.” I think I have come to believe that it is worst of all to be under the tyranny of fear; worse even than anger, which is insane as well.

Comment on So, What Was It? by Amy

Amy — Tue, 04 May 2010 01:28:33 +0000

One thing that you said on Sunday that really struck me was about death. It has no power over us. That’s been said to me hundreds of times. I’ve read it a ton in scripture. But the realism of it came over me on Sunday. Awesome!

Comment on So, What Was It? by Karen

Karen — Mon, 03 May 2010 22:21:47 +0000

Thanks for sharing more on it. Such a good word, Mark!

Comment on This Sunday – May 2 by Betsy Rorie Leonard

Betsy Rorie Leonard — Sat, 01 May 2010 00:40:05 +0000

I just listened to your Easter Sunday message about being “grumpy in public”…boy, did I see myself! Thanks, Mark!

Comment on This Sunday – May 2 by Doug

Doug — Fri, 30 Apr 2010 23:05:01 +0000

I’m super bummed that I’ll be missing it!

Comment on This Sunday – May 2 by Bonnie

Bonnie — Fri, 30 Apr 2010 20:07:15 +0000

well Geeze, now nether can I!

Comment on Preview & Input by Kevin

Kevin — Thu, 29 Apr 2010 14:47:43 +0000

I was just thinking about this the other day while writing my thoughts on your sermon last Sunday. My thought is that even though I received Jesus at a young age (8), I haven’t walked beside Him. I may have been firmly rooted and established in my faith at a young age, but what I think was missing for me was the tools to navigate and reject the world of secular humanism after leaving the nest.

Comment on Gathering Church Sermon Podcast : 04.18.10 by Anne Acuff

Anne Acuff — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 15:34:26 +0000

What you had to say was very good Jon. And a spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down, so I love the humor. It has made me think a lot!! Have sent several here to listen for themselves. Can people access this through your blog? So good to see you, Jenny and the girls.

Comment on This Sunday – April 25 by Carolyn Broom

Carolyn Broom — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 15:10:01 +0000

Hi Mark,
It’s Carolyn Broom. Couldn’t decide which of your websites to use but just wanted to check and see how your new ministry is progressing.

Say hey to Libby.

Carolyn

Comment on Preview & Input by Richella

Richella — Fri, 23 Apr 2010 23:10:19 +0000

It’s funny–whenever I stop to assess where I am spiritually, I find myself in a place that could best be described as Not Where I Expected To Be.

Another name for this place could be But God Knows Where We Are.

And, glory hallelujah, He also knows The Way Home.

Comment on Gathering Church Sermon Podcast : 04.18.10 by Bonnie

Bonnie — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 23:00:07 +0000

I was so bummed to be outta town when Jon was speaking! I just listened to this sermon… think I’ll listen again and take some notes. If you wanna make room for God’s Glory in your life, gotta get ride of the lies that dwell there. Great Message, and of course, wonderful jokes.

Comment on Keep Searching by Tera Bullock

Tera Bullock — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 17:07:51 +0000

Mark,
I just had to say thank you for writing this.

Thank you ,
Tera

Comment on Guest Speaker This Weekend by Bonnie

Bonnie — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 13:20:45 +0000

I was so looking fwd to meeting your son Mark! Your family has become My family, ya know? I was gonna go get a book signed and everything. Alas, I will be out of town. As Steve Kurtz told me “You can’t do everything Bonnie.” I will get to hear his message on podcast, but I am still thrilled about his coming. Nick has read his blog often over the last 2 years, and we have shared many a laugh and deep thought over Jon’s words. I know it will be a Wonderful time. I too feel proud of Jon, even though I have never met him… is that possible? Hahaha, how bout I am just Very happy for you and Libby ~

Comment on Sometimes It’s Fine Not Being Fine by Bonnie

Bonnie — Tue, 13 Apr 2010 21:04:39 +0000

Amen!! I love that scripture… “I will see God in the land of the living.” I am very thankful for this blog Mark. Honest. When you look in the psalms, you read about every emotion you can think of. Expressions of feeling lost and alone. I think that shows us that it is okay to have those feelings And express them. We are not called though to be Ruled by our feelings, but by God’s authority. I think getting them out to the light is a good start. Acceptance, ya know? What have I learned about the times I have been in the desert? With God’s Word front and center I have Always come out Stronger!

Comment on Guest Speaker This Weekend by Steve Kurtz

Steve Kurtz — Tue, 13 Apr 2010 11:29:53 +0000

We are proud of him too. Who knew that little “nananoo” (Peter couldn’t say “Jonathan”) would become what he has.

Comment on Sympathy for the Devils by Karen

Karen — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 16:54:18 +0000

Go Chris! Way to make a good connection! = )

Comment on What I Learned from Duke by Betsy Rorie Leonard

Betsy Rorie Leonard — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 23:50:32 +0000

Hi Mark- I talked to Gregg Sykes last night for about 2 hours on the phone! It was great catching up and we really enjoyed laughing and talking about our days as teenagers and growing up at Carmel Baptist Church. Looking back, those years played such a big part in my development as a Christian and the things that I learned from that church, my parents and the Youth Group at Carmel are still so much a part of who I am…I am so blessed to have parents and friends from so long ago to lead and guide me all these years. Just wanted to say hello and hope you and Libby are doing well. I hope we’re having a 40th reunion for our class from South. You’d better be there! I’ll keep you posted. I love reading about your church. Love- Betsy

Comment on What I Learned from Mary by Karen

Karen — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 19:56:43 +0000

Thanks for sharing this. Little children and those become like children in their aged perception often startle me with their spiritual depth. Good Easter story.

Comment on April Fools & Holy Weak by Bonnie

Bonnie — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 01:50:42 +0000

“…embrace this call to be holy April fools.”
I like that~

Comment on Change by Mike Tilton

Mike Tilton — Wed, 31 Mar 2010 18:12:51 +0000

Mark,

Great context on change. I had the opportunity to talk about the story of Peter last week to a large junior high group. Luke 24:12 was a key verse we focused on – where Peter “wondered” about the empty tomb. It seems like it was the point where he finally “got it” – hopefully all of us invest some time wondering, especially this week. Hope you and Libby are well – have a wonderful Easter.

Mike T.

Comment on Gathering Church Sermon Podcast : 3.27.10 by Karen

Karen — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 21:06:48 +0000

I’m ever so thankful for this pod recording. I loved my time with Lyndsay and the Toddler Tigers, but I did miss the message. What a joy to listen. And what a nice recording, Jeff, and everybody. Thanks!

Comment on “Forgiveness is the Final Form of Love” by Karen

Karen — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 00:49:41 +0000

I use the film Hotel Rwanda with my 10th graders to teach them about the insanity that can spring from hatred. I sure would like to track down this film and take them farther in the lesson. Thanks for making the connection.

Comment on Unforgivable People by Bonnie

Bonnie — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 23:00:10 +0000

Wow Mark… might you be willing to write a book on the subject?
Thank you for your, once again, honest words. A few days before the sermon on forgiveness, I was thinking about past hurts from people. I knew what You'd be speaking on and I was talking with God, praying for revelation on any un-forgiveness in my heart. There Are people in my life, that I wouldn't ignore or bolt away from if I saw them in an isle at Target, but I purposely do not associate with them any more. I wanted God to show me any unresolved feelings with them. Any baggage I was still carrying.
When I was young I was indeed betrayed and hurt by people. I had to go to God and ask "How can I forgive? How do you forgive that?" God showed me that it is Him in Me that does the forgiving. So I had The Holy Spirit that dwells in me Forgive them. I really do feel I have forgiven them, and I do feel, as you put it 'that account was closed'. But those are people I do not see. I live on the other side of the country from them. I would hate to feel when I see people that they still owed me something, like an apology, that most likely will never come. As you said yesterday Mark, "No one will every owe us more then we owe God."
I think we all long for closure, at least I do. I have learned, and still learn every day that I Can't look to the other person for that closure. I must look to God. I must look to The Lord for that peace and forgiveness, and put the other person and the whole situation in his hands, in His Will, and trust him.

Comment on What’s The Deal With St. Patty? by Karen

Karen — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 09:55:19 +0000

Teaching Celtic Mythology in my Mythology class right now. The histories of the cultures he touched do use him to further their own points of view, as your writing indicates. I had not thought of it that way. I love his testimony here, getting to see HIS perspective.
" I am become all things to all men, that I may win some to Christ."

Comment on Preview and Input by Sharon Young

Sharon Young — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 15:13:37 +0000

You can't die soon. You have to wait until after I die. I've always wanted you to give the message about what a weird woman I was and probably will always be. I hope I don't live long enough to be at your funeral. I turned 72 last December. I love you and think of you often.

Comment on Just the Opposite by Karen

Karen — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 09:44:54 +0000

It occurs to me that one of the reasons Jesus sent his disciples out two by two might have to do with what you are sharing. With a ready partner and confessor handy, things have no time to fester in the dark!

Comment on This Sunday – March 14 by Bonnie

Bonnie — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 03:20:39 +0000

You mean I am Not the Only one who feels guilty as soon as I see a cop??? Whew! That's kind of a relief. I juts told the woman in my wed night bible study that a good friend asked if me and her could get together to have dinner, '"just the two of us". I Immediately scanned my head for any offense I may have caused her. All the reasons she could be mad at me. Why did I do that? Why was That my first thought? Turns out she Did want to speak with me, and it Was a big deal… but she wasn't mad at me at all, she wanted to confide in me.

What is it they say, 'The first step is to acknowledge you have a problem.' Well, I am acknowledging it. Cant wait for the sermon.

Comment on This Sunday – March 14 by karen.perron@gmail.com

karen.perron@gmail.com — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:56:47 +0000

Heh-heh. Trust in it more. That SHOULD be enough. = )

Comment on This Sunday – March 14 by karen.perron@gmail.com

karen.perron@gmail.com — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:53:59 +0000

Wow. Now that Bonnie finally got me on here the right way, so I look at it all the time, I am enjoying the written word from both yourself and Chris. Good word today. Ooof.
Spent a bunch of hours with brother Tom at WakeMed on Thursday. He's up ON his right leg, w the titanium rod in it, still recovering from Tuesday's left arm rods placement. No internal injuries. Moving to rehab unit today. Thanks, most gratefully, for spiritual support from the body.
Tom tells me, Mark, that the experience with the word on "unconditional love" is indeed still working in his life and in his heart. The faithful love of God. I want to trust more in it more.

Comment on Confession: of Light, Mirrors, Basins, & Towels by Bonnie

Bonnie — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 01:19:08 +0000

wow… powerful stuff Chris~

Comment on Preview and Input by Bonnie

Bonnie — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:06:14 +0000

God is not afraid of who we are. whew… good stuff. I know it is hard, scary, and can just feel like literally wrestling with an angel, but it always better to get things in the light. Lord help me!

Comment on Lessons from the Bar by Bonnie

Bonnie — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:04:27 +0000

I agree with my mom, Karen. I too am feeling I want to savor this one. I also just like Any mention of 'Aslan'. Really though, I am always greatly encouraged and given new perspectives when I hear the goings on at your wed night men's group. Thank you for sharing.

Comment on Lessons from the Bar by Karen

Karen — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:52:23 +0000

What a lovely blog, Mark. I'm savoring some of the images. Thank you for sharing. KP

Comment on The Priestly Man In Black by Chris Breslin

Chris Breslin — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 22:48:22 +0000

Here's from an interview that ran last week between Rick Rubin and Terry Gross (on NPR's 'Fresh Air':

"He's probably the most committed spiritual person I've ever met. He really lived his life according to his connection with God, really. And he had such an honest and pure way about it that - I remember we had a dinner party at my house one night with Johnny and June and some musicians and some film directors, and before dinner, Johnny had everyone hold hands and he said a prayer and he read from a Bible. And I know some of the people at the table had never experienced that before and some of the people at the table were even atheists. But his belief in what he believed was so strong that what you believed didnt matter so much because you were in the presence of someone who really believed and that felt good and that made you believe really in him more than anything else. It was really beautiful."

Comment on Preview and Input by Karen

Karen — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 10:12:31 +0000

I like that God put in His Word that "we have fellowship , one with another, and the blood of Christ cleanseth us of unrighteousness." I see that if I am fellowshipping with another member of the Body, we are partnering, participating, having communion, and if they see my fear or my failure and love me anyway, they are forgiving me, and I am forgiven. They see me and see Christ, enabling me to look at myself, too….and see Christ, if only at first, through their eyes. He has everything set up for us. This helps me see #2, "Be present to one another."

Comment on Preview and Input by Bob Higgins

Bob Higgins — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:42:00 +0000

Mark, you have just given a powerful description of intimacy. My sermon this week is on the intimacy Christ won for us with Himself. As I struggled to define intimacy, I saw your post. Intimacy and honesty are very similar things that hold a great deal in common, both requiring non-condemning love that is costly and perfect. How little I really know of intimacy. Perhaps it is because I know so little about honesty.

Comment on The Priestly Man In Black by Karen

Karen — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 10:47:25 +0000

I like the juxtaposition of the men in black, yourself included. Connecting Johny to our image of priests is thought provoking. I treasure those folks I can recall to whom I did not ever directly witness, but lived my life around them for a period of time, only to see them reach out to God "on their own," leaving me, with them, in awe of God's work. As I think about it, staying present to God was a part of it.

Comment on Preview and Input by John Jay

John Jay — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 06:43:13 +0000

This is a tough question, since I am quite lacking in discipline and pray at odd times in no discernible pattern. Having said that, the Bible gives witness to the strangest instances of prayer (if by prayer we could mean any human-Divine monologue/dialogue). Does prayer change the mind or will of God? What about that little prayer Jesus gives in the NT? Why did culture bite so hard on the Prayer of Jabez insanity? Boy, that little book sure did screw some things up.
If prayer is talked about as a discipline to cultivate, then it may simply be considered effective in its actualizing. Prayer for prayer's sake. I look forward to your sermon. This very basic Christian act receives little formative attention at Duke. Ask Curt about his time at Morning Prayer. I had to step away from it this semester, but while I was present, I found the repetition and communal nature of it refreshing after having relegated prayer to a closet experience most of my life.

Comment on Priests? Really? by Karen

Karen — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 12:26:55 +0000

Dear brother, once again, your ministry grows on me, and I find myself reading and rereading your message this week. What a good word the Lord has sent us. Thank you for your obedience. Karen

Comment on Priests? Really? by Karen

Karen — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 00:13:25 +0000

I am quite fond of Thomas Merton, after having really loved his journal, Sign of Jonas, some 25 years ago. I ordered it this past year and have been happy all over again with his insights into monastic life, and interior dialogue. Recently watched 2 hour documentary on him and thoroughly enjoyed it. I was always so happy for him that he was able to live as a hermit his last few years, which is appealing to me. You would enjoy how he mentions his bumbling ways at times in priestly duties during mass, when no one else saw. We are always present to God. So glad.

Comment on Priests? Really? by Chris Breslin

Chris Breslin — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 12:22:22 +0000

I've actually seen "Into Great Silence." Beautiful. Like you say, the combination between discipline and solitude, along with joy and compassion (I'm thinking specifically about the scene with the elderly monk) were inspiring. The funny thing though, seeing that movie made me want to pursue a "priestly" lifestyle where I am more, not just move into a mountain cloister. I remember thinking, "These guys know how to party. These guys know how to live."

Comment on Priests? Really? by Bonnie

Bonnie — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 01:22:55 +0000

Easter…wow. Has it been a year already? I realized tuesday, that I met Richella one year ago. That means our 'little' church has been meeting for one year. Okay, one more time, and then thats it: One Year. Just flown by. 'Great thoughts Chris. This blog made me want to take another viewing of the film INTO GREAT SILENCE, Look it up on line. Might be to slow for some, but I saw the 3 hour film on the live of monks who live in silence, in one sitting. They sing every night, but they spend their days in silence, reading and in prayer. The Very Few times we actually get to hear them speak, well, those are the best moments of the film. ~

Comment on Gathering Church Sermon Podcast : 2.21.10 by Bonnie

Bonnie — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 15:03:26 +0000

I am So Glad these are so available on line. its So Easy to just click on it and listen. I have been re-listening to them in the morning as i am doing things in the kitchen. So Grateful!

Comment on The Best Defense by Bonnie

Bonnie — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 16:00:22 +0000

I played sports for Many years. Soccer and softball mostly. One year in basketball, but that was a joke. I still prefer little league baseball as opposed to Adult baseball. Soccer has my heart though. When Hockey is really good ITS AMAZING! I have been on the teams that win some and lose some, the teams that lost Every game, and those teams that Win every game. I didnt mind working hard and sweating till you just couldn't see straight, but I always had a hard time when I saw that no one cared anymore. Like no one was having fun. When teammate or coach was really Mean. Its NOT a lot of fun to run till you may throw up, but if we are working together it can be.
I was on many all star teams, and took the game seriously, but when you gotta be in a field with some chic you don't know for over an hour, blocking her and her you… well, I found that I chatted during down time. "Hey, I am so gonna be all over you, and try to Never let you touch that ball. Its gonna be awesome." They'd laugh and then when it came time to Throw down, we would, and if one of us got hurt, the other would help the wounded up.
I've had over time, after over time, ending in shoot outs in the rain. Very Dramatic! Sometimes tears on the way home. . . but it was always better if you had a reason to look at your opposing team at the end and say 'Good Game" and Mean it, and hear "Good Game" and know you did your best. For me, that meant playing hard, and laughing when I could with whoever I could. Now, I Was a child, but isn't it nice to see people in Olympics shake hands, smile, and maybe even laugh before they Throw Down?

I had some other points on your words Mark, but I guess I said all I needed to. I wonder how Jesus would have played games? Sports? If he did… if those men got in the field and throw things back and forth. I wonder if he had fun being connected to others?

Comment on The Best Defense by stephanie Jane hersh

stephanie Jane hersh — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 00:07:13 +0000

Regarding #2
As a new believer I have learned there are so many reasons to be in unity with one another as followers of Christ: look to 1 Corinthians Chapter 12 and Ephesians Chapter 2 : 19-22 Others see us better than ourselves. We represent a great God and have been saved by His grace to represent His glory and to look to the needs of the saints in His glorious battle!

Comment on The Best Defense by karen

karen — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 21:39:42 +0000

I'm puzzling over this three things true of a priest….#2. Why and how must priests be connected to one another…in their role as a priest? I see present to God and engaged with the world and, honestly, I think the fact that you perceive #3 as vital is what helps you bring such a fresh, realistic spirit to your messages.
But I don't see #2.

Comment on A Stranger Asked Me to Dance by Bonnie

Bonnie — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 23:38:51 +0000

I will never forget my sisters wedding, for obvious reasons, but one that maybe didnt happen to everyone. I was a bridesmaid and partnered up with this guy I didnt really know. Good looking, smooth talker, funny. The guy everyone watched to see what he was gonna do or say next. Well, it wasn't exactly planned, but all the groomsmen and bridesmaids were called to the dance floor to dance with one another. So me and this guy Had to dance. I am from a generation where people Do indeed dance… just not with each other. More of a 'we all dance alone, together', kind of thing.

So I am thinking, this guy is gonna lead, and I will just try to follow. Well it was awful. It was awkward, and we were stepping all over each other, and going in different directions. I don't remember exactly what he said, but it was something along the lines of 'Come On! Geeze, you're horrible!" and he ditched me and left me on the dance floor. I managed to walk away to the bridal party table. Eventually my sisters maid of honor came to ask me what happened. I told her I wasn't a good dancer and I was making it hard for him to dance with me. She said "What!? That's not true! You just need a good leader, I'll show you." She pulled me out on the floor, and you'd think I was a pro. We danced our our tails off on that dance floor, and it looked like we'd been practicing for weeks.

Only one other time has someone lead me on a dance floor like that. Again, it was an unexpected surprise… but one you never forget.

Comment on Prepared by Bonnie

Bonnie — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 04:10:50 +0000

Recently I have been praying for full coverage protection. Think Eph 6. The full armor of God. I have asked God to show me areas in my life of vulnerability, and provide me with coverage on those areas while they still remain unseen to me. Maybe in sports terms you could call that your 'blind side'. Great movie by the way. Think of the armor: Helment, check. Boots, check. Chest guard, check. What about those spots we don't think about. Under the arm pits, or behind the knee. An attack on that blind spot could bring the player down no matter how much padding the shoulders have on… am I making sense here? Just what came to mind as I re read your blog.

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Bonnie — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 00:05:58 +0000

Good stuff!

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Bonnie — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 14:53:06 +0000

Maybe this question is connected to wisdom, or pride & humility. I am thinking of what the world knows as famous spiritual gurus. Take Gaundi and Mother Teressa, Famous around the world right? Well if you told them how wise they were they would have said "No, no, I have so much more to learn." I think Paul writes that a lot too. When people spoke to Jesus on that he pointed right to His Father. ~~~~

I think the creation of man was for God's Glory. So God could make himself be known through a relationship with us. Too bold? If that true, then we Absolutely need God. If thats so, it matters a Great deal, or we will never know who we really are. Dearly Loved and Cherished by our creator.

Comment on I’m Still Trying, Dr. King by Barry Washington

Barry Washington — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 17:22:23 +0000

MARK, I REMEMBER SEVERAL DISCUSSIONS AT GBC. HOPEFULLY, WE BOTH HAVE BETTER VISION AS A RESULT.

Comment on Control by Bonnie

Bonnie — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 05:38:08 +0000

Mark, I always remember you saying that there was no class or course in PRAYER when you went to divinity school.

Not that long ago someone told me they found out they were trying to control others through prayer. Fascinating right? They would try to Pray for what They thought should happen. Whow. Something for me to think about. I remember that as I pray for others. Praying for God's will in their life, or wisdom, or love, or truth to shine… or for some Joy, I don't see this as controlling. But when I get into the how's of it all, I start to pray in a controlling way. Gotta leave room for God's authority on the matter. I am still learning. Progress Not Perfection.

Comment on Services Cancelled – Jan 31 by Bonnie

Bonnie — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 05:27:37 +0000

I shoveled my driveway today. I have the blister to prove it. I dont mean to sound like a princess, but I have Never done that. I actually kindda like outdoor labor, but I am from California. It Never snowed on my driveway there. Interesting indeed. I still cant really use my right thumb that well. I feel SO Much for those who do that every day. My hat off to you!!!

thanks for the mars hill sermons Chris. Gotta remember to pray for Rob Bell. I really enjoy his writings.

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Bonnie — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 05:20:33 +0000

Do I know any other transformation movies? You're asking the right girl: The Matrix, Dances with wolves, Good Will Hunting, Miss Congeniality, Garden State, Sound of Music, Sister Act, any underdog sports movie, Somethings gotta give,… to name a few. Hopefully thats well rounded enough to name at least One Movie any random reader has seen.
What does God Most want from/for me? This question has come up a lot recently. Or maybe I am just more aware of it. (Interesting book you mentioned Mark) I think its to show us what in our lives, mind, or heart is Most blocking us from experiencing real Love. I believe God's presence is in Real Love. So what is keeping us from that would be a great place to start.

Comment on Services Cancelled – Jan 31 by Chris Breslin

Chris Breslin — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 17:10:12 +0000

I thoroughly enjoy Resurrection Pres (Brooklyn, NY): http://resurrectionwilliamsburg.com/resources/sermons/; and Mars Hill (Grand Rapids, MI): http://marshill.org/teaching/.

Comment on Services Cancelled – Jan 31 by Amy Crump

Amy Crump — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 15:37:43 +0000

If you haven't seen the movie, "Amazing Grace", it's a good one. Did you know you can rent movies online using amazon.com or itunes? I'm sure you did, but I just found out a few weeks ago.
On another note, I miss seeing y'all. It's been 3 weeks…too long!

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Faith Bogdan — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 17:26:31 +0000

What do we most need to know about ourselves?
That we are loved by Someone, completely, without condition.
It's the fundamental need of every human heart, and only One Person can fulfill it. When we finally grasp that (in our heart, not just in our head), the possibilities of who we can be and what we can do are limitless.

Comment on Preview and Input by Mark Acuff

Mark Acuff — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 22:19:14 +0000

Sky, I really appreciate your comment. It forces some clarity and helps us interact with some things that we would have missed. Thanks. Just a couple of thoughts: “Do you think you should think about what god wants from you? “ When I bring God into it, I’m not thinking about what God wants ‘from’ me, but what God wants ‘for’ me. And, I’m not trying to get God’s approval, but God’s wisdom, guidance, honesty and grace. The pressure comes from my own distorted awareness, which I’m counting on God to relieve and transform.

And, I think that we live with God as much as we live with humans, and even though religion has been often used to not live well with other humans, God’s presence, purpose and power can help me to have the most honest and hopeful self-awareness.

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John Jay — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 05:06:48 +0000

Mark,
Your question forces me into that knee-jerk reaction of self-deprivation. It is like having to talk about your good qualities in a job interview. This is the part where I say something nondescript like my amazing ability to show up for work on time.
Yet, our self-understanding is deeply interwoven with our theology. How are we as creatures related to the Creator? The Bible talks about image-bearing and being animated by the breath of God. That sounds like a decently positive description. This is how the story starts, with dust and Divine breath. We are stamped with the image of God.
And yet if I am honest with myself, I do not feel like God's spirit animates me. I have all but lost the image of God. Only hints remain, like through a dim, foggy mirror.
My working assumption is that Jesus restores this Divine image. Illumination. We are set free for our true purpose, which is not endless struggle.

Comment on Preview and Input by Sky

Sky — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 00:25:40 +0000

Ok, now more seriously, you raised some good questions about self awareness, but then you put god into it. Do you think you should think about what god wants from you? Or more about what YOU want for yourself? Life is short, and in the end, it's you who are living it. Is it such a good idea to be around wondering how to gain aproval from an entity that may well not even exist at all?

Humans live with humans, and in the end, for humans. It's the interaction that we call "social life" that creates this self awareness in the end, so the mere point of improving this interaction, and be a better individual for ourselfs is much more fullfiling and ultimately much more complete, than just trying to find answers where only questions can arise.

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Sky — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 00:18:42 +0000

Don't stress about it, there is no god anyways, so you can go on with your life.

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John Jay — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 15:22:41 +0000

I did not articulate anymore on exodus because Curt said it so well. Ditto here.

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John Jay — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 15:21:50 +0000

Before I read Curt's response, I also thought of the exodus. This event seems to color all that follows in the story. It is interesting how even the NT writers articulate redemption under Jesus as analogous with exodus.

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Curt Lowndes — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 01:47:00 +0000

I'm not sure if this is too late, but I figured I'd give it a shot anyway. A bible passage that has taught me a great deal about God as Redeemer is Exodus 3, specifically vv. 7-9. As you said above, this is where Moses first encounters God. I think what I love about this passage is that God is so acutely aware of the suffering which the Israelites are enduring in Egypt. God says, "I have certainly seen the affliction of my people who are in Egypt, and their cry of distress I have heard ... I know their pains." Before God redeems the Israelites, scripture reveals that God is intimately aware of their situation. God has seen and taken note of their suffering and has listened to their cries for help. The verb used when God says “I know” is the same verb used when a man “knows” a woman and the result is a child. In other words, there is an extremely close bond between God and His people. The relationship is so good that God can say God knows their pain. God is united with them. God’s knowledge of the suffering comes from his experience with his people; it’s firsthand. I think it’s important to know that part of the redemption process is God journeying with us in whatever it is we are redeemed from, and later in scripture this is shown even more prominently in the Incarnation. God knows exactly what we’re going through because God has gone and is going through it with us. God redeems us by coming to us and experiencing what we experience. How wonderful!

Comment on This Sunday – Jan 17 by Fredric Gluck

Fredric Gluck — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 02:58:58 +0000

What God most wants ME (and everyone else) to know…. I Love You!
If we could understand that, the rest of it should fall into place. My problem is that I tend to forget that very often and forgetting that causes all kinds of problems in life.

Comment on Preview and Input by Amy Crump

Amy Crump — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 04:28:10 +0000

I purposely didn't read other comments as to not sway my original thoughts…sorry if I repeat what others say.
1st question – God is all powerful.
2nd question -God is everywhere…but not doing everything. So many people blame God in situations or occurrences that He most certainly is sad to see happen. Bad things happening on this earth seem to draw so many people away from God. God is good and love.
3rd question -Love, Mercy, Grace, Just, Never Changing

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Sandie — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 19:00:05 +0000

To piggyback on Christi's comment. I, too, need the reassurance that God loves me as broken as I am. I have a difficult time letting go of the guilt of past sins and forgiving myself. Intellectually, I know that God has forgiven me and wants me to do the same. My heart has a harder time letting go. I keep reminding myself that I am a work in progress and more importantly, His work. When I back off and let Him do His job, I'm a happy person. The truths about God that are important to me are: 1) He is all forgiving, 2) He is in charge and has a great plan, and 3) we are all a part of that plan.

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Karen Perron — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 10:21:28 +0000

I think back on when I was ending an amazing time of being in ministry, having been on the radio, traveling to other cities and holding services, moving in supernatural insight and even power. I felt so humble and excited and connected to God and saw and experienced miracles. All the stuff many folks dream of. A ministry partner got caught up and got us in debt without our even knowing it, and my husband and I got out, rather suddenly.
A hard period ensued and although many offered support and encouragement, I fell away from the study and worship and intercessory prayer in which I had immersed myself . I didn't understand why and I wrestled with myself. What I found was that it was NOT all the amazing gifts of the spirit, and miracles to which I clung. Nothing I had learned or taught or experienced sustained me. {By the way, Frank Tozzalino was a radio listener who joined our church and then supported our ministry and one with whom we stayed connected. Kate we knew from back east originally and then later introduced her to Frank.]
It was only what my little mom had taught by gentle words and deeds that sustained me…that God LOVED me, no matter what I ever did or felt. Even as a child my mother's words comforted me:"Oh, God's not mad at you, honey. He's not like that. He will always love you, no matter what." and , as a child, I believed her. And I saw that SHE was like that. And she KNEW Him. I know now that I saw HIM in her.
Here, years later, it was THAT only to which I clung, not all the ministry hoopla, the so called wisdom of all the studying and fellowship. Nope. It was as nothing, as Paul says, if I had not love. It was the simplicity of Him as a loving Father, all knowing, all covering and all faithful that brought me through. And I find in the dark times, it is still that which comforts me and encourages me and even helps my perspective when I am full of my own failings. I am most thankful that I had the great fortune of a loving family, whereas so many others have not. I know of love. Many do not.
And I have come to know that it is testimonies I have heard from folks who have gone through really hard times of God being FAITHFUL that encourage my faith. I remember their testimonies and I think of their struggles and loneliness and fears and that He was always there, always faithful, even when they did not know it. And I can hope to endure, strengthened by their example of clinging to Him. I am strangely comforted by the words of Job."Though He slay me, yet shal I trust Him." And I remember that Christ cried out, "My God, why hast thou forsaken me?" and I know that He experienced that sense of being all alone, forsaken, not rescued, not comforted. I may not understand, but others have come through, others have suffered much more than me, and I can hope in His faithfulness.
Seeing God work in others reminds me in all my stubbornness that He knows we need that fellowship, in the Word and with each other, to remind us of His Love and His Faithfulness. I need, as a child still, to know of His presence for OTHERS. He knows that in our frail humanity we need to SEE Him in others, it seems, and I am helped by thanking Him for making us a body…not just individuals.
I hope this rambling may be of some small use to you. It's always a good reminder for ME! = ) That time in my life leapt to mind when I read your invitation to share. It's all nothing if I don't believe He loves ME. I think you do a wonderful job of making that real for us, Mark. I thank God for His ministry through you. Maggie tells me Ray went home Sunday and got in the word and online with your writings and that He enjoyed himself at church. She said, "It's a start." Yes.

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Christi Kurtz — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 00:30:20 +0000

Mark, I think the main thing I need to know about God is that He is FOR me. My main struggle in my Christian life (and I've observed this being as being the most serious struggle Christian women experience) is knowing, really knowing, FEELING, EXPERIENCING, that God loves me just as I am. I'm beginning to really believe He totally accepts me (3 and a half years of AlAnon has been most helpful to me in really comprehending that He accepts me.)
Sad to say, often the church (what's preached and what's lived out) hasn't helped me out very much.
I love that you're asking for questions/ideas.
Praying for you, brother. Christi

Comment on Preview and Input by Bonnie

Bonnie — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 20:32:54 +0000

I think starting a tuesday night group again would be so great. I know that group I was in with you was just wonderful, yes, even With the firworks.

I dont know about 5 truths about God. I do know that God isnt worried. It comforts me to know that when I am running around chasing my tail and stressed, I can look to God and find that he isn't worried at all. When I think of God, I think of warmth ~
When I have a question about God, and I read something in the bible, it may not answer my question right away. It usually gives me something to chew on, something to sit with and meditate on. After awhile, I find I dont have that question anymore. I have peace instead. A warm peace.

Comment on Preview and Input by WC

WC — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 19:12:59 +0000

God is:
1-Holy
2-Omnipotent
3-Omniscient
4-Omnipresent
5-Eternal

Comment on Lions Beware by Bonnie

Bonnie — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 01:48:21 +0000

"What do you guys talk about at Your church?" "Ya know, how to really go after a lion and take it down... you?"

Comment on This Sunday – Dec 27 by clare bauer

clare bauer — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 14:12:47 +0000

I like the attention brought to faulty thought process about letting God down if we take a day off!

Comment on prayer by Bonnie

Bonnie — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 02:03:14 +0000

I have found that if I feel God wants me to pray about something, it is always best if I do… Right then. This can freak people out. Discernment plays its part, but instead of telling someone "I will pray for you", which is not a bad thing, I try and pray for them right then and there. If I wait, there is a good chance I will forget or put it off. If you ask "Can I pray for you now?" A person can always say no… but what if they say Yes? Chances are you will both walk away with some peace and less of the burden on your shoulders, having just given it over to God. Jesus prayed Then and There. I am Far From being like him!!! I cant really get away with laying hands on a customer at work, as much as I'd like to "Would you like a refill on that diet pepsi and may I lay hands on you and pray"… but at least being open to praying Then and There is a start.

Comment on The Most Important Role of All by Bonnie

Bonnie — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 04:56:06 +0000

What would I do differently? Good question…. I guess I would 'savor' things more. I think of older wise men, sipping their tea, because they have learned that downing the drink doesn’t add to the enjoyment of it, but simply takes it from you quicker, having barely tasted it. I'd probably savor conversations, and those wonderful still moments. Savor the laughter. Savor even doing the dishes… too far? That just what comes to my mind right now.

Comment on How God Does It by Paul Hale

Paul Hale — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 22:11:10 +0000

This is a great testimony of what Paul writes in 1st Corinthians chapter 1: "For the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men." God uses us for His purposes in spite of how broken we are. The ESV translation of Isaiah 64:6 says "all our righteous deeds are like a polluted garment." The NIV translation calls them "filthy rags".

Comment on This Sunday – Nov 15 by crista

crista — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 18:33:21 +0000

I was really moved by the teaching this past Sunday. You did a wonderful making that passage of scripture real and applicable to life. Thank you for speaking what God felt we needed to hear!

Comment on A Lot on My Mind by Steve

Steve — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 21:52:31 +0000

From what I know about Jesus – and what I know about most churches today, most church-goers today probably wouldn't feel comfortable around the Jesus of the Bible. What type of guy could tell a harlot (at a well) hidden things about her life and her response be to rush into town – the very town where she made her living – and encourage others to come meet this guy? Or what about the relationship Jesus established with one of the most hated people in town…the tax collector? Who else would want to associated with someone who chose a tax collector to be a friend? Yet people flocked to Jesus. I want to find out why! I want to be more like Him. Truth and compassion and friend – all rolled into one.

Comment on This Sunday – Nov 15 by Richella

Richella — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 18:07:31 +0000

I am thrilled that this is your new mantra. Your sermon last Sunday was one of the most powerful I've ever heard. My soul has been fed all week by this lesson, and I can't wait to hear more.

Comment on A Lot on My Mind by Melody

Melody — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 02:38:54 +0000

"Totally not religious in any practicing way. Just the kind of person Jesus liked and was drawn to. The kind of person Jesus would invite to follow him and to announce the good news of God’s kingdom."
Wow….that's great. Why is it many times that our first thought is that Jesus loves the spiritually lofty or elite? That He is more impressed or inclined to use that person than the non religious. This has been good for me to read tonight. My heart goes out to the family and I pray tonight that God comforts them and gives them the grace and strength that I can't even imagine they need right now and in the months to come.

Comment on prayer by Chris Breslin

Chris Breslin — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 20:48:39 +0000

Please pray for our family friends, the Waechters, who recently lost their sister(/-in-law) Mallory to a fatal blood infection and pneumonea after a long battle with cystic fibrosis. Pray that they might have peace, comfort, and the hope of seeing her again. -The Breslins